I have some special guests with me today: two of my boys. They share what they’ve been trained to say in what it is I want for my children.
The world is brainwashing our children, so brainwash them back to remember what it most important, which is that their parents are their leaders.
The story that your children believe the most is the story that your children hear the most.
Life is full of teachable moments everyday.
So what messages are you communicating to your children?
What story are you communicating the most to yourself?
Will they have to course correct their paths as adults, or are you doing what needs to be done now that they won’t have to do that?
Consistent communication is key in using every moment possible to teach them as the primary messenger.
Listen to your children.
Be present.
Let them know you care, and that will become the story that they believe the most.
Ask yourself:
* Do I want my children to be able to open up to me?
* Why does it matter to have consistent communication with them?
* What type of life do I want to create with my children?
Get clear about what type of relationship you want to build with your child. It’s never too late.
My wife and I go on weekly dates.
It’s not always easy to find the time every single week, but it’s vitally essential. I used excuses about not being able to find babysitters, but one of my coaches showed how silly that excuse was.
My wife is my Goddess, and she is worth finding and paying for a babysitter so I can cultivate a lasting marriage.
How do I do that?
I get present.
Whether it’s putting my phone aside, into airplane mode, or turn it off, I’m not building a relationship with my phone; I’m cultivating the greatest gift I can give my loved ones, which is my time and attention by focusing on them, not the most recent notification.
You will notice a power that comes from being present with others.
When you give the gift of your time to others, you will produce the highest amount of value for yourself and those around you.
Ask yourself:
* Who matters the most in my life?
* What do I need to put away so I can give time and attention to those who matter?
* What would happen if I was present with my individual family members?
Be focused on the present moment by being there for those that matter.
Being compared to the guy that I was in high school, I HOPE that I’ve expanded and become a different individual then the guy I used to be.
We are constantly expanding or contracting.
When we’re going towards prosperity, you must continually expand and grow, even though there are people that want us to stay the same because they haven’t expanded themselves.
It has nothing to do with greed.
It has everything to do with expanding on a daily basis. You become and increase within your skill sets which will naturally result in increasing your balance in your bank account.
There are beliefs that run your life that you believe to be true but are untrue. How do you know? Whether or not it’s leading you to expand or causing you to contract.
Ask yourself:
* Am I expanding or contracting?
* Who do I need to “unsubscribe” from?
* Am I producing results that will lead me to further expansion?
Unsubscribe from the people or goods that are holding you back.
What would it take for full commitment in living a life to be who you need to be?
Does it take the threat of death for us to wake up ?
If you follow a simple formula, you will be able to avoid the hurt that comes from not waking up in time:
Ask yourself:
* Where am I at?
* What will it take for me to wake up?
* What would happen if I stopped stopping in my life?
Will it take death or can you wake up?
Manifestation is more like a mental masturbation because it’s only a thought which hasn’t been put into action. It’s not the real thing, even though it feels kind of like the other, but there is no magic in the word manifestation without doing the necessary actions.
Unless you do the work, manifestation doesn’t occur. You have two choices: do the work required and that’s necessary, OR you can hope and wish that money will fall from the sky. Which do you think will produce the best result?
Ask yourself:
* What is the work required or necessary to manifest prosperity in my life?
* Where have I been looking for a magic solution instead of doing the work?
* What is a lie that I continue to feed which is actually holding me back from doing the work to manifest the results I seek?
Manifestation is only power if you do the necessary work.
While taking my kids to school one morning, I saw an example of the Law of the Harvest/ karma: going to bed late will result in tired children the next day.
When we realize that we make choices on a daily basis, we will also see that there is a consequence that follows.
In the Revolution, it is realizing that we are all living a game of agency and having the freedom to choose.
Ask yourself:
* Who am I serving today?
* What is the consequence that will follow my choices I make today?
* What can I do today to result in consequences tomorrow that will lead to a prosperous life?
Get out of the mode of blaming other people and instead “Choose ye this day whom ye will serve.”
There’s an obvious difference between those believing in attracting money by waiting for it to come along after visualizing it and those getting themselves out there to create the vision of prosperity.
The Law of Attraction isn’t just simply thinking positively and putting together Vision Boards then wait for prosperity to come:
If you want it, declare it, then do the work necessary to get that which you desire.
Money is a result of creating value within the marketplace. Are you the guy that’s trying to magically attract money without committing to any action?
If you want the money, you’ve got to do the activity to help you receive money from another person’s account because what you have to offer is worth more to them than the money they have.
Ask yourself:
* Who am I serving today, and what’s the program, product, or service that allows me to bring in more money?
* Do I have the mindsets and skillets required to build an empire that brings prosperity?
* What is the necessary work required today so I can see prosperity manifest itself into my bank account tomorrow?
Quit lying to yourself on how to get to the top of the mountain and DO THE WORK.
People know that I love what I do, so they’re always asking, “What do you do and how do you do it so successfully?”
I coach with my own flair. I’m a doctor that helps heal people in the mind. I market and network.
It all depends on who I talk to, but when it comes to the end of the day, I work with committed people.
YOU get to decide whether you’re going to be a winner or a loser.
How do we know the difference?
The results.
If you work with losers, you’re going to get losing results and scarcity. But if you take the time to work with someone that’s committed, you will find continual prosperity.
Some guys will just never follow through across the board, mooching and not living by example.
A winner lives what he preaches and teaches.
Every single day you have a chance to be a winner. If you’re going to have a wealthy life of prosperity, you better wake up and start being COMMITTED and POWERFUL vs some loser that can’t get the job done.
Level up. Expand every single day and choose abundance and prosperity over scarcity and fear. YOU DO THE WORK! Every single day.
Work with highly committed people. Go get the necessary required information and do the necessary required commitment.
Ask yourself:
* Am I doing the work?
* Does my commitment show who I truly am?
* Do I need to adjust it?
Wake up and don’t be a loser. How do we know? Tell the truth and be committed.
It’s the way how we perform the small details in our life that show our true character.
If we operate under the mindset that it’s the small and simple things in our life that end up making the biggest difference, the military mentality that “shiny boots save lives” show that we are thorough in all aspects of life because even the smallest detail is considered important.
Ask yourself:
* In my life today, what little details am I missing out on?
* How am I portraying my true character?
* What little things can I focus on today to better reflect who I am?
Leave wherever you are better than when you first found it.
We learn that stories kill and stories create.
Whether it’s physical pain like a hurt back or never having enough time, the stories that dwell in scarcity will continue to destroy.
Producers and creators empower and build, so what kind of story are you running right now that is holding you back?
Operating under prosperity, money is a result from creating value; make money as a result of helping other people.
Ask yourself:
* What kind of story am I running right now that is holding me back?
* Is the story about WHAT IS in my life going to destroy or create?
* Am I a Producer and Creator?
When you change your story, you change your life.
It’s not a new concept to tell the truth. And yet, it’s hard to stop lying, especially to yourself.
How do we know?
Because your life isn’t working.
Be real and tell the truth. The reason your life isn’t working is because you claim that you don’t know what you want, but in actuality, you do…you just refuse to tell the truth.
Pretending your entire life away in order to avoid the truth will only lead down a path in which you will fall.
You need to be committed in going ruthless and raw in telling the truth by confronting what results you have in life in order to avoid the lies.
Ask yourself:
* What would it take for me to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth?
* How do I ‘Be Real’ in my everyday life?
* What can I do today to be committed in going ruthless and raw in telling the truth?
Once you are willing to tell the truth and stop pretending, you will shift being the victim and instead be empowered. That is when you will prosper.
After my time in the NFL and being a part of Super Bowl XXXVI (2002, Patriots and yes we won) I retired the following year and found myself financially broke.
I jumped into the mortgage industry and within a few short years found myself prospering more than I could possibly imagine.
With the new cars, home on the hill and real estate around the country, I felt untouchable. But I was still empty.
I knew I had more to do with my talents and gifts than to just push mortgages and real estate.
I walked away and then felt the hard effects of the collapse back in 2007-2008.
Now what?
What do I do?
I would use this time to sharpen my skills, refine my talents and become sharper than ever.
Post football career, I learned a vital difference between Scarcity, Abundance and Prosperity, sending me on a path of self-discovery and found a way to bring value to people by coaching men and women in business but more so in their lives.
In scarcity, people are used in order to make money, while in the game of prosperity, people are seen as having value.
We need to shift from the entitlement mentality of living off of the wealth of the producers, which requires a Revolution.
We are created to be more.
You are created to be MORE!
In prosperity, the purpose of life is EXPANSION and VALUE CREATION.
As William Wallace stated in the movie Braveheart,
“Everyone man dies, but not every man lives.”
Ask yourself:
* Am I awake to the countless possibilities of prosperity around me today?
* “Who do I need to become today to prosper at the highest levels for my life?
* What resources do I need to use to prosper?”
Once you pull yourself out of the scarcity mindset and into one of abundance, your entire world will shift.