Do you want it bad enough to the point that you will give things up?
Ask yourself:
*What would it take for me to be the most dominant?
*Do you want it bad enough that you will master your craft?
Stop wasting time.
Language matters. Say something that allows them to have confidence in themselves.
Decrease the screen time so you can be fully present.
Clean up the mess you make when you fall short. Show your kids that it's okay to apologize.
Celebrate their great behavior, celebrate their victories.
Ask yourself:
*Do you celebrate your kids' victories?
*Do you reward them? Do you shower them with praise and compliment and acknowledgment?
Behavior that is rewarded and celebrated gets repeated.
Be someone who can grind.
Anything of great worth requires a work ethic.
Ask yourself:
*Do you have a work ethic?
Every prize that you desire has a price that is required.
It's okay. Reset the direction and choose and move.
Ask yourself:
*Are you willing to reset your direction, choose and move?
Motion creates emotion.